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#want_know_can

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One of the main factors in the success process is that ONE and ONLY word, “willingness”.

What do they say?

“Where there is a will, there is a way”

Human kind’s mental power is beyond imagination; in another word, if our brain wants something then all our actions would be shaped based on that desire, and we will continue and continue until we reach the exact place, our brain wished for.

But what is more important than desire? Determination, and wanting something all out. Now there’s the question; do you want it all out? To answer this question you must get to know yourself, really and truly; you have to start to love yourself, your true self.

Now tell me, do you want to be successful? Do you want to grow? Yes? but you’re still checking Instagram and wandering around? Do you want to get thinner? Yes? but you can’t stop eating junk foods?

Gary John Bishop in one of his books called “Unfu*k yourself” says that we all have to be honest with ourselves, maybe we don’t even want that thing we thought we wanted. He thinks that menkind isn’t lazy, so if they don’t do something it means that they don’t want it all out, because if they wanted it they would try for it, “No one can make you willing, and you cannot move forward until you really are willing to make the next move”.

So go somewhere quiet and ask yourself:

Am I willing?

Or

Am I unwilling? (as Bishop says)

Either way, it will make you get up and do SOMETHING about it.

Maybe you’re saying that I want that, but…

WAIT RIGHT HERE! There is no BUT in willingness. Throw this BUT away! If you really want something you’re going to prove to yourself that you can because you want it so bad!

I know, it might not just be enough to say that “I want something”, your actions are also important.